Older cousin acts too distant with me for absolutely no reason

so recently I went back to my hometown and sadly my grandfather passed away therefore we had a funeral and ofc all relatives came along with their condolences. the funeral lasted long and around this time one of my older cousins comes around and ofc takes part in helping my parents. Now a lil background, he isn’t my first cousin he’s a bit distant relative of mine but we do share the same surname and everything. Secondly, this is my second time meeting him and the first time I met him was back in 2018 or something when I was 11. Thirdly currently I’m 17 and he’s like 30 but is quite the youngster and isn’t like married or shi. HES like a cool guy yk so ofc as me being the only youngster there I thought me and him would bond. Right?

Nahhh that was way out of line than what happened. So we met and he absolutely didn’t talk to me face to face like💀💩 and that was alr cuz it was the first day only so I’d didn’t care much. But then he started to get on my fucking nerves this bitch.

so I noticed something. That he would talk to everyone and I mean everyone in the family except for me at first I thought oh it’s been like a few days so ig hes trynna get comfortable but oh boy the way he avoided me was so evident it was crazy and I mean anyone in my place would feel weird about it. So firstly in any room I went he wouldn’t come in and I used to sit with all my younger siblings and he wouldn’t come in but as soon as I left the room he’d be sitting and chatting with them. Like I said he chatted with everyone from my grand mom to my youngest brother to my aunt. EVERYONE. But this man never had one straight up convo with me. Reason? IDKKKKKKK. Doesn’t help the fact that he was attractive asf and I’m not saying cuz I’m attracted to him but it might be the reason he has such a high ego😐 and if he wanted to ask something abt me he would ask my parents even if I was there

anyways that’s not only it. He swore at me once. LIKE SWORE SWORE AT ME and it was over the pettiest thing ever. So he and one of my other cousin were planning to prank my brother and I just came back from outside so I didn’t know why was going on so I just was smiling at my brother. And then he suddenly goes “dude the fuck are u doing, if u do that he’ll know the fuck” and then this bitch proceeds to say “dude she ruined our vibe ugh” and in a fully pissed tone I was like woah bruh first it’s not that deep and second u barely know me the freaky💀 ofc I didn’t say that to his face and just smiled and left to my room and I’m so mad at myself for not retaliating but that was not all it.

Then after that he once was using my laptop and my photo gallery was opened and it wasn’t like explicit pics but they were like hot photos of me. Like a normal person would close it right. Yk what he did? He called one of my other cousin to close the photo gallery 💀 like what are u? 2?

After that he was gonna drop me to my examination center unfortunately and so I had to go in his car with my dad. I sat as usual on the left side but after giving my exam I sat on the right side of the car and that’s where the rear view mirror was facing the whole time and ofc as soon as I sat there we could see EACHOTHER perfectly thru it and HE ADJUSTED THE REAR VIEW MIRROR and don’t even try to say it was bcs of the road nah the roads were there before. Liek is he even allergic to my Face💀 also side note before going into the exam he didn’t even wish me luck😐 like bruh u talk to everyone and is prolly the most extroverted guy wtf have I don’t to u like I wouldn’t do that to my younger brother. I seriously don’t understand what his issue is honestly like avoiding me so much on purpose?

alr then on the last day of me there he didn’t talk ofc but ATLEAST he said a goodbye and shook hands prolly the most greatest lengths he’s went to to interact with me. I love how much interest he has in everyone’s lives except mine 💀

Then after like two days of leaving my hometown he liek messaged me on snap an acting audition he found for my brother ? Really weird. I don’t get his deal